“When I was young, I admired old people.
Now that I’m old, I admire wise people.
When I was a youth, I admired strong people.
Now that I’m old, I admire meek people.
When I was an adult, I admired wealthy people.
Now that I’m old, I admire happy people.”

– Matshona Dhliwayo

Since the beginning of time, humans across the globe have been pursuing singular goals: first it was sex, then money, now it is happiness. From the executives on Wall Street, to the sheepherder on the rural plains of Kenya, to the stay-at-home mother in China, all of us have been driven by the ceaseless desire to be happy.

What we eat, wear, and do are all expressions of our pursuit of happiness. So are the books we buy, the shows we watch, and the relationships we pursue. But, if humanity has searched for it since the beginning, how come happiness has been elusive? Should we not have found it? After all, we have gone to the moon, cured fatal diseases, and made countless discoveries in every field you can think of. Knowledge has undeniably increased, but the reality is that happiness has not.
This inspired my long, uncertain journey to find out the secrets to happiness.
I remembered the story of King Solomon, who according to the Bible was the wisest and richest man in history. He had all of the above, but he despaired in the end:” Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.” His pursuit of happiness ended miserably, as he was focused on his mind and body but at times forgot to nurture his soul. I came to the conclusion that, as humans being composed of mind, body and soul, we must nurture all three to achieve our highest happiness.

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Mind – You cannot live a happy life with sad thoughts. Timeless wisdom states that we become what we think. It therefore goes without saying that happy thoughts contribute to creating a happy life.

Body – Research has shown that the brain produces serotonin, a chemical contributing to our happiness and well-being. When we exercise, our bodies also produce endorphins, chemicals that reduce stress and diminish our perception of pain. Clearly, when we take good care of our bodies, our bodies take good care of us.

SoulResearchers have been dumbfounded after finding that there is a relationship between healing and having a higher power.” The soul is the highest part of us, and if it’s nurtured, everything else- happiness, fulfillment and lasting joy-falls into place.

To help you on your happiness journey, below are ten insights I conjured up. Enjoy!

1. What you seek for others you find for yourself.

2. A heart full of joy is better than a hand full of coins.

3. Pebbles that bring you joy are better than diamonds that bring you sorrow.

4. When bad things happen to you, become wiser, not bitter.

5. The beauty that is in you is greater than the ugliness that is around you.

6. If you go to bed angry, you have robbed yourself of the chance to wake up happy.

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7. Letting go of sorrow gives you enough strength to carry happiness.
Letting go of fear gives you enough strength to carry hopefulness.
Letting go of resentment gives you enough strength to carry gratefulness.
Letting go of disappointment gives you enough strength to carry joyfulness.
Letting go of avarice gives you enough strength to be content.

8. Love subtracts sorrow, divides trouble, adds blessings, and multiplies joy.

9. Happiness cannot be bought by money, cannot be acquired by degrees, cannot be realized by power, and cannot be earned by honor; but it can be won by kindness, gained by charity, attained by goodness, and achieved by love.

10. Pleasure will make you happy for days. Wealth will make you happy for weeks. Honor will make you happy for years. Love will make you happy for a lifetime.

People spend hours, days, even years searching for meaning of happiness. What really makes them happy? Is it a new job? A new spouse? A new home? A new car? No matter what you fill in the blank with, the answer will always be no. Happiness is not about whom you’re with or where you are or what you have. Can these add to your happiness? Yes, they can. Can these things create your happiness? Never!

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  1. Great… I would start working in my soul and not the body and mind alone

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